My story is so weird.. it started with another dating website that my husband got on ..and he was on there for 3 days and he already started chatting and texting with a women .. his attraction was so strong with her withen the 3 days we was on that website he went and saw her 3 times.. I couldn’t believe it and while he was chatting with this women .. she asked him to change his relationship status on facebook .. well my stupid husband said ok thinking i wouldn’t see it.. so he gives her his password so she can change his status..my phone was ringing off the hook from people how saw this post.. i was at work at the time and I had to leave work because I was in shock … well i went to where he was sleeping and I stole his cellphone I saw all the texting and phone calls I couldn’t believe it … i saw his password for facebook so i went and changed his password so he could access his account and from there I got all his passwords for his dating sites and his email,, my husband was living a double life.. if you would like to know more.. contact me

A long time ago the inlaws brought over a computer, my wife was a stay @ home mom and claimed it was for the children and their homework….they were 2 and 3. Over the years my wife would play games, always part of the inlaws gamming. Once FB came out my wife was on it all the time….house went to the dogs, laundry wasn’t done, and dinner was burnt on a regular basis. The inlaws told me my wife had a problem but she wouldn’t quit. She went off to Calif for a weekend get away w/ the girls…turned out to be an old HS friend….she had sex w/ him for points on Farmville!!! I was crushed. Her reasons for remaining friends w/ him was “she couldn’t loose the points” So sad.. we have 4 children, and now we are getting divorced..but I have learned that was just the tip of the iceberg..there have been other men she has been sleeping w/ from FB…all from HS! She claims she was sick and is better now but I gave her 18mo and 36 weeks of Marriage Counsling….she was just w/ another man from HS a few weeks ago. Funny, in HS she was so shy, she didn’t have any friends…and now she is out of control. I worry about my girls…they see mom talking about sex to men on FB…what kind of young ladies will they become? Most of her family know what happened and have quit FB, the ones who don’t remain. I pray for her, she has hurt so many people and lives w/ the guilt, I pray she gets better before she destroys the relationships w/ her own children.

I dated a man who I thought would someday be my husband. We got along great and I loved him. I was his friend on facebook and noticed that he had some comments from women he knew. Many were married so I thought nothing of the comments. Maybe they were just friendly like that I said to myself. He took me to Hawaii in February this last year and while I was waiting for him to rent surfboards his phone went off. He never left his phone and it showed he received a text from a girl I knew he was friends with. She was married and worked at a starbucks he visited a couple times a day(should have been a sign but he loved coffee as much as I). I knew she had children and was married. So of course nothing would be going on between them, right? Wrong. I decided to click on his facebook app and noticed he had been facebooking her. She sent him emails talking about times they got together and asking if he wanted to stop by and see her again. It was even wo rse that I found out while we were on vacation, a 6 hour plane ride from home and away from him.

As much as it hurt to know he cheated on me, it was worse that I knew it was with a married woman. I must just be naive. But I thought marriage meant something. I know her husband doesnt know. At times I wanted to email him. But thats her issue and its not my place to tell.