Scared My Marriage
We’ve been married 19 years. we had our bumps and brief separations over the years but we remained faithful to each other.
Until she started going into Facebook the past few months. She was on facebook all the time all the way into wee hours.Then I heard about this site and she displayed all the classic cheating behaviors. She had all her ex-boyfriends on her friends list and she had contacted each one of them. I tried hard not believe it or not to be bothered by it until one night.
She was drinking late at night and had the music on kind of loud. I went into the room to tell her to turn the music down but she had fell asleep with the laptop in front of her. I turned the music down and I was going to turn off the laptop when I noticed they were many blinking pages. I checked and there it was. She had been having online sex with one of her ex-boyfriends. She said she still loved and cared about him. They exchanging many intimate details.
I was devastated. Hurt. I took the laptop to the living room and left it there. She got up later to go to the washroom. She went back to the room and came back out looking for the laptop. I showed her the laptop. She didn’t say anything. Later I asked about her chat sessions. She said it was her ex-boyfriend. We argued. She said she still cared for him. I guess they have been in contact since she got into facebook. She didn’t say anything about the online sex they were having. It wasn’t pleasant. I couldn’t go to sleep.
All these years of being married and now Facebook has scarred our marriage. We plan to stay together but it will never be the same again. Who knows? She still has her ex-boyfriends on her friends list even after she said she had deleted them. Man…that sucks…to be continued
Filing For Divorce
live in Dallas, Tx. I have been married to my husband a little over a year. He stayed Facebook all the time. I finally got I started sending messages to some of his friends. He came home from a date . When he went to sleep I called tis women. She had no idea that he was married. That night he threw me t the ground twice and punches me. I called 911 and he went to jail that night..This was a 2nd felony charge. He kept me scared until I would not testify against him. He emailed me a letter saying he hit me to teach me a lesson not in throw his stuff in the pool. He also told me I needed to mind my own business. Another one of his girlfriends asked to chat with me. We chatted for hours two different. She told me that husband was an bigamist. While at her home he called the cable company. During their conversation he said he was her husband. He also told another girlfriend he was married to her. He had several other women during this time. I am filing for divorce.
