I have been dating a man that I thought would be my husband. That is all he has talked about for 8 months. He was having a hard time getting on Facebook, so I helped him straighten out his Facebook problems, delete his multiple accounts and get him up and going. Within one day he was looking for his childhood sweetheart. He found her and reconnected, telling her how beautiful she was and that she was his first true love. Gave her his phone number and told her he really wanted to hear her sweet voice on the phone. Not knowing that he was doing this, I helped set him up on Skype so he would be able to talk with his grandkids and kids. He started using that to connect with this girl. What a low blow on both accounts!

Within a week and a half, our relationship ended. What hurts the most is that she is married. Her husband doesn’t know what is going on with them. They are making plans to meet in person now. I want to tell her husband but I feel it is not my place.

I have a friend who’s wife left him for the same reason. His divorce just finalized. Amazing!!!!!

My story is so weird.. it started with another dating website that my husband got on ..and he was on there for 3 days and he already started chatting and texting with a women .. his attraction was so strong with her withen the 3 days we was on that website he went and saw her 3 times.. I couldn’t believe it and while he was chatting with this women .. she asked him to change his relationship status on facebook .. well my stupid husband said ok thinking i wouldn’t see it.. so he gives her his password so she can change his status..my phone was ringing off the hook from people how saw this post.. i was at work at the time and I had to leave work because I was in shock … well i went to where he was sleeping and I stole his cellphone I saw all the texting and phone calls I couldn’t believe it … i saw his password for facebook so i went and changed his password so he could access his account and from there I got all his passwords for his dating sites and his email,, my husband was living a double life.. if you would like to know more.. contact me

A long time ago the inlaws brought over a computer, my wife was a stay @ home mom and claimed it was for the children and their homework….they were 2 and 3. Over the years my wife would play games, always part of the inlaws gamming. Once FB came out my wife was on it all the time….house went to the dogs, laundry wasn’t done, and dinner was burnt on a regular basis. The inlaws told me my wife had a problem but she wouldn’t quit. She went off to Calif for a weekend get away w/ the girls…turned out to be an old HS friend….she had sex w/ him for points on Farmville!!! I was crushed. Her reasons for remaining friends w/ him was “she couldn’t loose the points” So sad.. we have 4 children, and now we are getting divorced..but I have learned that was just the tip of the iceberg..there have been other men she has been sleeping w/ from FB…all from HS! She claims she was sick and is better now but I gave her 18mo and 36 weeks of Marriage Counsling….she was just w/ another man from HS a few weeks ago. Funny, in HS she was so shy, she didn’t have any friends…and now she is out of control. I worry about my girls…they see mom talking about sex to men on FB…what kind of young ladies will they become? Most of her family know what happened and have quit FB, the ones who don’t remain. I pray for her, she has hurt so many people and lives w/ the guilt, I pray she gets better before she destroys the relationships w/ her own children.