I have been with this man for 10 years, he was my best friend, more than I could ever ask for in a relationship. About 5 years ago he found a girl on Myspace that he used to know at work that apparently “had a thing for him” they started talking and one thing lead to another he said he needed a break from me and his daughter, well I wanted to make it work so I went after him and we worked through out with some counseling! Yay right? Wrong! About 2 months ago he was on Facebook and a mutual friend off him and his sister befriended him, I thought no big deal he was honest and I had all his passwords! He ended up leaving, had been with this girl since he left, drained our bank accounts and left its hanging high and dry while I was a week away from graduating college! Now all the money is gone he won’t sign the divorce papers, refuses to see his daughter, makes endless broken promises to her, and he’s living with her at her mom s house using drugs, riding a bike now and has no job! I honestly think what hurts more this time is that our daughter is 9 able to understand and wants to know where her daddy is and that he’s ok, and I can’t give her those answers!