I have been with this man for 10 years, he was my best friend, more than I could ever ask for in a relationship. About 5 years ago he found a girl on Myspace that he used to know at work that apparently “had a thing for him” they started talking and one thing lead to another he said he needed a break from me and his daughter, well I wanted to make it work so I went after him and we worked through out with some counseling! Yay right? Wrong! About 2 months ago he was on Facebook and a mutual friend off him and his sister befriended him, I thought no big deal he was honest and I had all his passwords! He ended up leaving, had been with this girl since he left, drained our bank accounts and left its hanging high and dry while I was a week away from graduating college! Now all the money is gone he won’t sign the divorce papers, refuses to see his daughter, makes endless broken promises to her, and he’s living with her at her mom s house using drugs, riding a bike now and has no job! I honestly think what hurts more this time is that our daughter is 9 able to understand and wants to know where her daddy is and that he’s ok, and I can’t give her those answers!
Oh good god. That’s sad. When I was younger, to be exact 12. My dad left my mom and he didn’t EVER talk to me. My mom and I became homeless and barely had enough for food. We got an apartment when I turned 13. My mom met a wealthy man. We moved into an AMAZING house! I did hate my dad… But my step-dad, Phil was my new dad. I im engaged and I was home with my daughter, Emma. And I heard the phone ring. It was my dad. He wanted to see me and his granddaughter with his new 40 yr old wife. ( He is 50). I was shocked he had waited 14 years to talk to me? I screamed through the phone and told him no. Then about a week later I was in the park with Emma and Brandy (I was babysitting My friend’s kid, Emma’s best friend as well) I was texting on my phone when I looked up and saw a man and young women talking to my daughter. I ran up to both of them and grabbed them. The man tried to hug me but I paced back. The women said You must be Maci? I looked at both of them. It’s your dad, the old man replied. 2 seconds later a 16 yr old boy (My father and the sluts adopted kid) ran up to them. All three of them stared at me. I picked them up and walked back to our car. As I expected they came over to me. I screamed at him Saying ” I don’t EVER want to see your face again, YOU waited 14 years to see me?! After the phone calls after texts, you were always “To busy”. His wife looked down. I said to her ” You’re the slut my dad left my mom for and made our life a living hell”. Then I said to the son ” I fell sorry for you having to live with these two idiots”. Then I left. BUT anyways back to you it’s much harder when it’s the man you love! Everything will work out perfectly fine. Life just throw you a curve ball.
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