Technology Catches My Wife Cheating Using Facebook

I thought this was a fitting time to share a story about how I got this website started and why. Also lots of you asked how I caught my wife cheating so here’s the story…

My wife and I have been married for 10 years. I had never suspected her of infidelity. But, about 1 year ago I found myself having reason to suspect. When I sat down at our computer I noticed she had left her Facebook page open. To my bewilderment, I saw a message from an individual referring to her as “babe”.

Who would be calling my wife babe?

I felt the need to find out, but I knew I couldn’t just ask her. I realized I needed to be gentle to find out what was going on. Hiring a stranger to uncover her secrets would be embarrassing for me. I needed to do this myself and be very careful. Spying on people isn’t something you learn in a college classroom. I did some research on the internet and figured out my strategy.

Firstly and I’m thinking like an investigator here, I needed to find the vulnerabilities in my wife’s security. Being that she isn’t a diplomat or foreign spy, this wasn’t very difficult. I didn’t know her Facebook password, but I have access to the home computer we share. Needing to know the truth, I was willing to spend some money in the pursuit.

Using a Stealth iBot Computer Spy enabled me to gather all sorts of information from our computer. Seen here.

I plugged it into the USB port and it installed in just a few seconds. I could then remove it while it did its work. When I was ready to extract the gathered data, I simply plugged it in and downloaded the information. With this tool, I was able to recover several types of information, perhaps the most important being keystrokes. All letters being typed are recorded; meaning I am able to know everything that is being typed, whether a password or a message on Facebook. I can also view the history of websites
visited and take screenshots. My wife could do nothing on the computer that I couldn’t know about. This may seem extreme, but it helped me establish that she was indeed having an affair with her Facebook chats.

Before confronting my wife, I wanted to know more. From her messages on Facebook, I knew she was talking to this person on the phone and receiving text messages.

Utilizing a Cell Phone Spy I was able to recover deleted text messages from her phone. Seen here

I could also see phone numbers that had been deleted from the phone. It only took a moment while she was out of the room to insert her cell phone’s SIM card into the device, and then put the SIM card back into her phone. I could then view the information by placing it in our computer’s USB port. The evidence from her phone wasn’t helping her case. I was almost ready to confront her. But I still wanted to know who exactly this other person was. With a Spark Nano GPS tracking device I was able to find out exactly where my wife was going. Seen here

I placed it in her glove box and was able to track the vehicle for up to five days before needing the battery to be recharged. Different locations and addresses could be recorded. Based on what I found on her phone, I knew when she was supposed to be visiting her “friend” next. Once she pulled into his driveway, I knew exactly where he lived. And on the way, I could track her in real-time. I could even be alerted when she had left a designated area of coordinates; knowing when she was lying about where she was going to be.

Perhaps emboldened by the passage of months without already getting caught, my wife and her lover decided to rendezvous at our house for the first time. Knowing this from text messages I had intercepted, I decided to catch them before it happened. I bought a new alarm clock which just happened to have a high resolution video camera inside. The great feature about this clock is that you can view the video feed from your computer. When my wife’s date arrived and they ended up making their way to the bedroom, the
motion-activated camera turned on. I could then see what was happening from behind my computer at work. I did not let it happen as a phone call to her ruined her mood. I made sure to record it so that my wife could see it for herself and I’ll be using it in court during the divorce.

I now had what I believed was enough evidence to present to my wife: dozens of messages on Facebook, email and texting. Phone logs of their near daily calls. GPS records of her visits to his house. Video of the two of them in bed. When first confronted, she couldn’t believe how I would dare accuse her of such deceit. Instead of arguing about it, I just played the video for her. She was quiet. And then angry. And then sad. Knowing she couldn’t win, she confessed. Within a few minutes she just walked out of the room. and I moved out that night. I am devastated by her actions but don’t let something like this go too far.

Get the proof you need or prove it’s not happening and get out. I am grateful that technology could help me in such a huge way; even if the results were not happy ones.

57 Responses to “Technology Catches My Wife Cheating Using Facebook”

  1. aja August 22, 2010 at 11:47 am #

    Please contact me at 1800 547 6912 ext 8410. My name is Aja and i work for nbc universal. Im definitely interested in hearing about your story so please contact me at your earliest convenience. thanks so much!

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    • DURR December 20, 2010 at 11:32 pm #

      this is an ad, this story is BS

      • Dude April 13, 2014 at 2:52 pm #

        Yes. This is not a real story… He is selling spy products…

  2. Helydr October 17, 2010 at 10:31 am #

    Your wife was wrong to cheat on you but your story is creepy.

    • Helios October 18, 2010 at 7:17 pm #

      Hey what happened to Sadie’s comment that was on here yesterday?

      • Megan November 12, 2010 at 3:53 pm #

        People cheat all the time. I worked at this company synnex in Greenville SC. This guy one day had pictures of his gorgeous wife in his work cubicle and then this girl that just started work was sitting in his lap and all the pictures were down. I heard recently they got divorced and he is with that girl!

  3. Amanda November 30, 2010 at 12:46 pm #

    This seems more like an ad than a legit story. Someone’s getting referral money.

  4. hasan November 30, 2010 at 2:59 pm #

    Does any of this stuff work with Skype? It has been the darkest moment in my life to find last month on our 1 year olds birthday that my wife of 15years runs multiple Skype & Facebook accounts.

  5. Peter November 30, 2010 at 3:59 pm #

    I agree, this is really creepy, no wonder your wife was cheating on you. You needed to confront your wife early on. All this spying is just vindictive bullsh*t. You need to grow-up, dude.

    • K November 30, 2010 at 7:29 pm #

      Hmmmm….how do i put this? Oh yeah…WRONG! You can confront a cheat till next Tuesday, but there is no such thing as an honest liar and cheat. They aren’t going to come to you hat in hand and come clean with you. Modern technology has created an atmosphere making it too easy to cheat, so why not use it to catch them. Sorry, but if someone is skanky enough to bring it into your own bed, then by all means use any firepower you have. My first husband brought a skank to my bed waaaay before there were computers, so I found out by coming home to sweaty sheets with a brand of perfume that wasn’t mine. He also brought home an STD that thankfully I was able to cure, but some STD’s can’t be wiped off.

      If someone were cheating you at poker, you’d certainly employ any means possible to catch them at it, and when someone is possibly exposing you to diseases, then they deserve to be spied on and caught out. They shouldn’t have any problem being spied on if they aren’t guilty of anything. Hell, any guy I meet now is told they need to have a full background check and a medical check before they even get out of the gate. Too many freakazoids out there not to anymore.

    • jones david December 16, 2011 at 7:08 am #

      Nobody deserve to be cheated on you need to grow up and you maybe the one she was with. I got two GPS on mine ?

  6. RS November 30, 2010 at 9:53 pm #

    No wonder your wife was cheating. Sounds like you spend all your money on high tech stuff!

    • squiggles December 11, 2010 at 3:57 pm #

      Are you stupid? Under no circumstance should anyone cheat on anyone.

      • Ensayofr April 24, 2011 at 4:05 am #

        You are right I don’t know why those stupid people are blaming the spyers instead of the cheaters.

        It’s like blaming someone for insulting a rapist…

        • JAL June 3, 2011 at 8:27 am #

          Not creepy at all… when you invest your life with someone and are pretty sure they are cheating, you dont have too many other options other than to solidify your suspicions and use as evidence in a divorce… Until you walk a mile in someone elses shoes, maybe you shouldnt be so quick to judge anothers actions…

  7. shawn liddick December 1, 2010 at 11:48 am #

    this type of website is the kind my overly suspicious wife accesses to make a mountain out of a molehill. she has made me a prisoner in my marriage for nothing more than having female friends. well done you tin horn himmlers

    • squiggles December 11, 2010 at 3:55 pm #

      If you aren’t guilty, there shouldn’t be a problem. Font blame the website, blame your wife. Its not the websites fault she doesn’t trust trust you, its most likely something you’ve already do e.

      • holli January 23, 2011 at 5:30 pm #

        I agree completely. If you have nothing to worry about, then you wouldnt have such a problem with it.

        • lala February 5, 2011 at 3:58 am #

          i agree with holli cheating is very wrong and hurtfull if i felt i was being cheated on i would rather catch them than to ask them that way there proof n no dening it it would make thing way easier n the high tech toy would b cool to jus keep around

  8. Cisco December 23, 2010 at 5:05 pm #

    As for me, I too was stung my a cheater. It appears that my wife for one month living in another country and waiting for her immigration papers became lonely. Before you know it, her 2nd cousin jumps on her page and starts telling her everything she wants to hear. After a while, his comments become past friendship and into the if you were with me crap it would be all different. Get this; the guy actually posts them together on Facebook and this is how I found out who he was. The kicker of all this is she thinks she is now cheating on him with me. by sending me lingerie pics of her. What a loser.

  9. Hardware Keylogger December 31, 2010 at 8:51 am #

    Why anyone cheat?
    Such a stupid article.

  10. livi January 23, 2011 at 5:24 pm #

    ppl cheat all the time. u did too much just to find out what was goin on i wouldve left well enough alone after the fb messages and told her we should see other ppl

  11. Jona January 25, 2011 at 11:20 pm #

    Guys, don’t you see? This is a carefully disguised attempt at viral marketing of their so called spy gadgets. A good one, but considering the story was written without emotions(hate, anger, etc) and presented in a totally cool and logic way, u know that this story is BS.

  12. K February 4, 2011 at 8:10 pm #

    nice job! this story was inspiring to me. I hope I don’t have to resort to this method on my fiancee one day

  13. indiana February 8, 2011 at 11:53 am #

    does anyone know if there is a way or something i can download to find out if my wife has more than one facebook account. She stays up several hours after i goto sleep and is on the computer but always clears history and turns of autowriter

  14. CHris March 5, 2011 at 8:32 am #

    And if I was your wofe……your ass would be sitting in prison on felony wiretapping charges! Hows that there mr Sleuth!

  15. nita March 6, 2011 at 5:11 am #

    Yeah, dood, i find u very creepy…what she did was wrong. what you did was even ‘wronger,’ lmao….

    u scare me

  16. nita March 6, 2011 at 5:13 am #

    and yeah, i agree too that this is an elaborate ad….and i’m with chris…felony wiretapping charges!

    • Ron March 27, 2011 at 10:03 am #

      Obviously you’re a cheater and the technology today that could be used to track your shadiness gives you the willies.

      Ad or not this is practical and useful equipment if you think you’re with a hoebag.

  17. Roger March 6, 2011 at 7:14 pm #

    My sincere condolences to you for the grief and pain you must have felt when you discovered your wife to be unfaithful.

    I think you are being constructive in helping others to determine whether their own spouses are cheating and your links to products are helpful to save a reader time researching such devices themselves.

    I won’t even respond to those who have castigated you for using extraordiary methods to document your wife’s infidelity. Last time I checked adultery was also against the law.

    My only advice to you is to think long and hard about your marriage. Infideltiy doesn’t happen by chance. It was a long time developing, during which your wife found something lacking in her life from your relationship.
    Try to figure out where YOU went wrong, because there is always blame on both sides in a failed marriage. I know. I’ve been there.
    I truly hope that you can learn more from this experience than how to secure proof of deceit and that you can apply those lessons to enriching future relationships and/or a second marriage.

    Best wishes and good luck.

    • Anonymous April 27, 2011 at 1:55 pm #

      Not true…some people CHEAT just for the thrill…the secrecy…the power.

      And if your marriage has problems, big or small, talk about them.

      Say, to your HUSBAND or WIFE (the closest confidant anyone can have)…hey, I am not satisfied…we need to change or do things different or else I want out.

      Deal with it honestly and openly.

      But CHEATING is a conscience choice and step.

      You can flirt, or test the waters (still wrong)…but when that guy or gal leans in for that FIRST KISS you make that decision to BETRAY the one you swore in front of G-D, FRIENDS and FAMILY to protect from this very behavior.

      It is selfish at least and down-right cruel at best.

  18. Nicole April 19, 2011 at 7:50 am #

    I wish I had the guts to do what you did. My hubby was messing around on FB and txt for a yr.

  19. Anonymous April 27, 2011 at 1:51 pm #

    Same thing happened to me.

    Saw an open email from wife (10 years+ 3 kids) on the computer from an old boyfriend with sexual inuendos and talk of getting together. I wanted to believe it was innocent flirtation and entertainment.

    Curious, I asked her some probing questions and got HARD LIES.

    So, I added the keylogger and within a day I knew she was CHEATING.

    I confronted her and she still LIED.

    I let it go for another 5 YEARS while I would continually catch her in half-truths and misleading statements.

    Finally, she met THE ONE and asked me for a divorce which I agreed (however, she never admitted there was someone else, just that we were “not right” for each other).

    To make a long story short…the guy dumped her (before I even knew about him for sure…I now have pictures and everything) and I am continuing with the divorce.

    And let me assure you…my STBX had my total trust…and I could not even imagine her doing the things I now know she did…but sure enough she DID…and they DO…people CHEAT and LIE (for their own reasons).

    But confronting them is a waste of time…it is like asking a LIAR…did you just LIE to me?

    If it is your computer…slap a keylogger on there and find out the truth so you can decide what to do next.

    • CHRIS May 23, 2011 at 2:11 pm #

      hello , so sorry that this happened to you bud…iam going thru same stuff right now…where can I find keylogger
      thank you

  20. DazafromOZzz May 4, 2011 at 9:38 am #

    Is he a closet cuckold sounds like it!

  21. Eric May 10, 2011 at 4:23 pm #

    To all those bashing a spouse for resorting to spying you clearly have no clue on how far a cheater will go to deny any allegations. When you are married to someone for a while you get to know a hell of alot about each other. When a spouse starts making suspicios changes in behavior there is usually something up. I am not going to leave my wife because she was on Facebook late at night. On the other hand if it becomes a pattern and I notice she logs off every time I enter the room, you bet I am going to ask her to see what she is doing on facebook. If she denies me looking at it then I know right then something is up. Being this is a woman I love I am not leaving anything to chance. I am going to find concrete undisputable proof she is either cheating or I am worried over nothing. One thing I will not do is wonder all the time. That right there could destroy the marriage. I would hope any spying would reveal she is being faithful but if it doesnt then I am not confronting her at all. If I have the proof then why do I need to ask her about it. Ill pack my things and she will come home and find me gone. When she asks whats up, all I need to say is you allready know. The lawyers can handle the rest.

  22. Eric May 10, 2011 at 4:47 pm #

    Also,, to those who are saying its both of the spouses fault,, I agree that something in the marriage was wrong but to resort to infidelity is an individuals decision. There is allways a feeling or knowing that the cheating is wrong way before it ever reaches a physical affair. Either attempt to repair the marriage or file for a divorce. To pursue an affair is selfish and says alot about a persons true values. A person who resorts to an affair is not a person worthy of marriage. Try your best to work out some issues or file for a divorce but if you have an affair no matter how you try to justify it you were never worthy of the vows you took and are definately not worthy of being called a spouse or a parent you are ultimately an adulterer and thats between you and the good lord!

  23. John August 2, 2011 at 9:05 am #

    I to caught my wife cheating by using keylogger

  24. You’ve got great insights about Spouse,cheating,worse feeling , suspect, keep up the good work!

  25. rtyecript August 22, 2011 at 12:02 am #

    I really liked the article, and the very cool blog

  26. Kerry August 24, 2011 at 4:43 pm #

    This sounds suspiciously like advertising rather than a bona fide story of divorce, especially with all the links to specific spouse-spying tech.

    • Nedd November 26, 2012 at 8:05 am #

      I believe it was advertising, it was too well written, why would you sound like a Harvard professor if only disclosing your woes ????????

  27. Robert September 1, 2011 at 7:52 pm #

    It’s not uncommon anymore for there to be a cheating wife instead of just husbands. In fact, with the internet, I think it’s more and more common. Before, the majority of husbands worked and were out meeting others. Now, those who are at home can meet even more people over the internet.

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