I stumbled onto the fact that my husband was having some sort of an affair by seeing an email. From that, I looked the person up on facebook and was able to read every comment they had written to each other for over 2 years. To say I was in shock is an understatement. Guess they both thought I was too stupid to ever see these public posts since I was not one of her friends on facebook. Long story short, my husband and I have worked on our marriage since I confronted him about her. I found out the hard way I was not showing him enough love and he found an old high school friend that was more than willing to. We are stronger than ever now, but even after a year since he de-friended her, there is a loss of trust that is permanent and an ever-nagging doubt as I wonder if they have truly parted ways. By reading all the sexually charged comments he had posted to her, it is just something I will never be 100% over.

Well… My husband and I were separated. He’s a little behind the times on current technology. (understand, married 24yrs, still friends talked daily, just couldn’t live together). 2yrs ago I finally got his paranoid butt onto Facebook. Now he found his girl from High School and wants a divorce. Since he’s retired military, and I was “only” married to him for 8yrs of his active service, I lose my health insurance as soon as we’re divorced. I don’t even have the option to pay tricare to keep my insurance. Since I have a pre-existing condition, I don’t qualify for regular health insurance. Lol, that’s what I get I guess, for trying to get him caught up.