The bigger problem is that once in a porn/sexual FB relationship, it spikes Dopamine and Serotonin levels EXACTLY the same as (recorded on a pet scan) as Crack, shoplifting and other stimulus This dopamine/ serotonin boost from the lust AND the fear of being caught eventually lessens and you need more “FB crack” to attain the same levels. Eventually you can not get the boost you need so you elevate to either a REAL face to face affair, or start taking bigger risks like FB chatting when your spouse and kids are in the next room. How about text messaging while at dinner or driving with your spouse and kids sitting right next to you.

This is truly an addiction. In many instances that was not the original intent just as the first hit of crack or coke was not intended as becoming addicted.

Here is what I tell my patients: The very moment you are posting on FB or any other place for that matter and you feel you need to hide it from your spouse the affair has begun.

There are FB stalkers out there, stalkers disguised as an old friend but stalkers never the less.

Once addicted the FB affair takes precedence over everything, spouse is expendable, children are an afterthought, family and friends mean little. Connection with the spiritual God is gone.

I deal with this as A. A mental problem. B. A lack of spiritual connection or C. Both.

Any person here that want’s to contact me directly can feel free to know that I am bound not to reveal your name or anything you speak about. I’m also a police chaplain.

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BTW: I don’t charge my police buddies and the same here!

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