I live in Dallas, Tx. I have been married to my husband a little over a year. He stayed Facebook all the time. I finally got I started sending messages to some of his friends. He came home from a date . When he went to sleep I called tis women. She had no idea that he was married. That night he threw me t the ground twice and punches me. I called 911 and he went to jail that night..This was a 2nd felony charge. He kept me scared until I would not testify against him. He emailed me a letter saying he hit me to teach me a lesson not in throw his stuff in the pool. He also told me I needed to mind my own business. Another one of his girlfriends asked to chat with me. We chatted for hours two different. She told me that husband was an bigamist. While at her home he called the cable company. During their conversation he said he was her husband. He also told another girlfriend he was married to her. He had several other women during this time. I am filing for divorce.

I meet this guy supposed to be my boyfriend that i meet online a year ago.
He’s station in my hometown then he moved to his hometown coz he quit the service, we constantly communicate thru text and skype.then as months pass i found out on his facebook that theres so many women there as his girlfriends online he.s on 5 or 7 dating sites.

Most of his contacts are women and hes online 24/7 then i found out one day while were talking online he’s talking to several women stupid of me i just ignore it coz i thought i love the guy, thats already a sign and i still continue to communicate with him eventhough i already knew. Well i guess love is blind then plan to meet me and stay with me for weeks i agree coz i missed him. That time we spent at my place all he does is go online facebook and to his dating sites and talk to his women, when we are at the restaurant or the grocery store he keep textings women while he’s with me, I realize what have i done to myself i know already before what kind of a man is he and i still continue,now my big prob lem is i hope im not pregnant he’s back now but still continue doing what he’s doing. i wonder if those women on his facebook knows all about him, sometimes i wanna shoot myself, he doesn’t have a job just getting money from the government .Before he put me on his facebook i even have to ask him why im not there an theres lot of women there, i have to literally argue with him, now i found out i saw him and read his messaging some of the women on his facebook that hes gonna meet all of them, he just want sex thats it.

The important things for him is women, sex, alcohol thats how he is….I hope this is a lesson to all the women out there, dont trust a person too much and dont believe everything the lies, the deception.What goes around comes around….Karma is a bitch…

The beginning of my sad story actually is a bit funny. My boyfriend lived in a different city than I did. He is a minister who sells himself as being a kind, compassionate trustworthy man. This profession gives him the perfect alibai and opportunity to have many women on his Facebook page. “I was thier youth pastor, I did the eulogy at her mother’s funeral, I was the minister to her dear father…” etc. He was very posessive of me and wanted to make sure that we were exclusive. He told me he was changing his Facebook status to “in a relationship”, he asked me to do the same. We were both fairly new to Facebook and not very familiar with how it worked. When I went to change my status to in a relationship, FB gave me the option to say who I was in a relationship with. I put his name and then FB sent it to him for approval.

He told me how very surprised he was that it listed who we were in a relationship with on our page now. I looked on his wall and a woman had written, “who is….My Name” I found out several months later that he was dating and sleeping with this woman (and others) and he thought by putting “in a relationship” that his other girlfriend(s) would think he meant with them!! I, like many women, trusted this guy and we became engaged. He moved to my city and we began planning our wedding. He spent a lot of time texting on his iphone and computer. I was coming to realize all was not right with him emotionally. Two weeks before the wedding I saw a notice of bankruptcy on his desk. I began to wonder what else he wasn’t telling me, by then some things weren’t adding up. He had told me his password for most everything was the same and he’d previously given me his password. So, I checked his Facebook emails. What a shock! The kind minister was having an affair with a married woman which began two weeks after our engagement. Previou s to our engagement, while we were exclusive per his insistence, he was sleeping with two other women. He’d told other women he loved them while we were engaged, invited his best friend’s ex-fiancee to spend the weekend with him….it goes on and on. He e-mailed one married ex-girlfriend the instructions “be careful not to write anything risque on my Facebook wall as others would be able to see it.” His Facebook was filled with women he met on dating sights. He’d tell the women on dating sights he was going off the sight and get thier email, phone # and add them to his FB.

Of course, he stayed on the dating sights too. FB became his “base camp” where he gathered all of his girls he met in the past, present and on dating sights. I read some e-mails from wiser women who could see he was stalking them or emotionally manipulating them and they told him good-bye. But the majority of women still are on his FB, none the wiser. They don’t know that the lines he writes to them are the exact same lines and verbage that he writes to all of them. This isn’t Facebook’s fault. People need to put thier relationship with thier spouse first and do whatever is needed to protect it. If that means abstaining from facebook or having an account together or whatever make the couple feel and be secure, that’s what needs to be done. For those with emotional problems, and in the case of my ex-fiance, psychopathology, Facebook becomes the perfect outlet to play thier games, be decietful, fool people and break hearts. He will lie and deny it to the end, very convincingly too. If I hadn’t printed it all out as evidence he would’ve had me questioning myself wondering whether I’d really seen it. That’s how slick he is. Most convincing liar I’ve ever seen and he can turn on tears like a water tap anytime he wants too. If asked, he of course will lie and deny, then sprinkle a little imperfection for believabilty and frame it as, ” I am probably too friendly to everyone because that’s how I was raised in my Christian home and dad was a pastor. I am a bit flawed. But my ex- fiance and my ex wife who I cheated on with so many women in my church are just very broken women to be mad at me.

I have done a lot of good for many and written books on how to heal from betrayel. ” Seriously. My ex even has a “church facebook page” complete with an address where to send “love gifts”, and I’m sure his hypnotized Facebook friends are doing just that!