I finally met someone, I thought after years of not being in love. I was falling head over heels! Within a month he told me I was the best thing that ever happened to him, that he was also head over heels in love with me, or so I thought. We quickly became boyfriend and girlfriend, and were together about 8 months. He was overweight and got back into fitness and was really looking goood, I had just started my fitness journey. We started hiking with groups of people, and I noticed he would take off ahead (was in better shape than I), and I didn’t think anything about it, but other people noticed something wasn’t right. I did notice that one of the girls would run up ahead with him, still didn’t think anything about it. There were dozens of friends running, jogging, walking the trails, so it wasn’t unusual to buddy up with someone that went at the same pace as you!
After I was introduced to this person, she befriended me on FB. Well, now I know why. One day I saw flirty comments from other women and I told him: “you sure do have a following, don’t you?” He just laughed and shrugged it off. I am not the jealous type, and I thought it’s only comments on FB. He asked me one day if I thought his friend was pretty, I said no (only speaking the truth). BIG RED FLAG!! I also had a dream that he was cheating on me, should have went with my gut instinct.
He has a young daughter and this woman has a young daughter. He told me they were going for a play date (Yeah right!). Next thing you know he’s telling me it’s not working out, we don’t get along! WHATEVER! I was off FB for lent (gave it up for 40 days). Next thing I know everyone is texting me and calling me, “who is this chick that your man is with?” They sent me photos of them together. Apparently before he broke up with me he was already deep into a relationship with this woman. Not only was I humiliated, embarrassed, not to mention very hurt that everyone is witnessing this public display of affection and photos and I had no clue! The next thing I know I am in love with a man, yet single again. SMDH! What was I thinking? All the signs were there. FB comments and all! All I know is lesson learned. She can have him and all his issues! What was meant to be will be. FB is like an online dating site! …And if by chance he comes across this comment, which I doubt. I am happy for him…he found someone on the same low level as him! Good luck to them!